Whether you choose to be alone for a period or your choice was a result of the things occurred between you two, do not let the possibility of forming a new relationship disappear from your life.
There is so much already written about this niche. However, not many of us know that there are certain things that are invisibly preventing us from having a relationship and keeping us single after breakup.
1You keep ex on a pedestal
Once a relationship ends, most of the time we waste on justifying what went wrong. We keep on listing the reasons behind that breakup. We believe we are shortlisting those, so that we can learn a lesson from them. But, actually all these actions are fathering a pessimism about relationship among us.
Instead justifying, we must accept that there were reasons behind the death of that relationship. You will not be able to have a healthy relationship if you keep on comparing each person you meet with your old partner that you have in your head.
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2You keep former around you
Once your ex is gone, let it disappear completely. I know, many of us want to keep our ex around us. We wanted to start a new relationship with someone else, but at the same time, we want to be a good friend of the former. This is not a good practice.
As you know, friends spend time together and talk a lot. And, as I said earlier; a complete disconnection is very important. So, do not have friendships with the ex-partner. Moreover, it may be difficult for your new partner to understand your relationship with ex. And, eventually, you may have to quit from both.
3Keep everyone away
Maybe you like someone, but do not do anything to see. Fear of rejection of people is so great. I know, there are people who can go up to any extent to hide their feelings for someone. They could do everything possible for the people they love except confessing their feelings for that person.
Try to share your feelings. What more could happen than a rejection. But, that is not the end of life. Tell the person that you like her and accept his answer with maturity.
4You’re too demanding
You may be a person with a very big tick list about your partner. You are rejecting people just because you think they are not perfect according to your requirements or an arbitrary standard that you have set in the past.
But, should you stick to your unrealistic standards, you’ll never meet someone who has all the qualities you want. Think of someone who can make you laugh and feel good.
Life is wonderful and colorful too. But, to see the colors, you need special glasses; glasses of openness and positivity.