“Stay away from the people who shrink your ambitions”
We do know this fact, but many of us still complain and do nothing to improve the situation. Those negative people who you think are supporting you, actually, they are discouraging you. Such toxic people are everywhere. Why is it so important to eliminate negative people from your life? We all know negative people stop you from achieving your goals. Such people do everything possible thing to discourage you, kill your ambitions and dreams. Negative people are so full of negative energy that they can easily suck up all your concentration and won’t let you have the right decisions. Well, the question here is not how you can get rid of them, but how would you tell if you are surrounded with this generation. If you want to learn how to pick out negative people that surrounds, here under are a few solutions.
When you talk about your dreams, they discourage you
This type of people you should avoid having next to you. These sorts of people have dreams and prefer to remain in the comfort zone of mediocrity. But, they get really upset when some other guy in the room dreams. It’s something that makes them feel bad, uncomfortable or jealous. They will do everything they can to sabotage your dreams. Discourage you to dream. They discourage you from doing what is different, difficult, and make you believe that you are going after something that is not possible. Get them out of your social circle, if you can. If not, do not talk about dreams. Do not enter into arguments with them, and never try to prove that you are right. Just mind your business and move on!
When you have problems, you won’t find them
No matter how much success you have, to an extent it depends on the people around you, your social circle. There will be times where you’ll need a tip, encouragement or just a shoulder to help you climb up to the tenth floor couch. You will see these negative souls around you, when everything is going well. But, you won’t find any of them when you have problems. In such cases, you need to learn to become less selfish. Refresh your knowledge about your friends, and when someone tries to manipulate and take advantage of you, put your foot down. Ignore it.
Being with wicked will make you wicked
We tend to become like most people with whom we spend time. When you change your entourage, you change your habits. If you have a certain life, spend time with people who already have it. People who used to negatively influence you, ignore them and stop spending time with them.
I am jealous of you
People who not take others’ achievements as an example to follow, but as something that hurts them steady, you should never take them as your well-wishers. They will try to pull you down, bring you to their level. Will always find explanations for your success such as your father gave you money, someone has arranged everything for you or to the worst, whatever, but it’s not your merit. Avoid long sitting with them and do not argue with them and – most importantly – do not try to prove that your success is because of your work. Because you must understand that you are arguing with someone who is not interested in your arguments. Move on.
These negative people can eat up everything good in you and before you can even realize they will empty you from within. Avoiding these sorts of people become very complex when they are family members or close. There are methods that you can adopt to avoid them; ignoring them diplomatically. Stay alarmed.