How would it feel if I tell you that the motivational lectures are nothing, but a waste of time? I strongly believe, listening to these motivational lectures barely bring any difference.
People often tell me, despite hearing hundreds of motivational lectures, their motivational level is still too low. Even after watching countless videos and reading articles on the Internet, there is no improvement in their lives. Their motivation level is still the same as it was even after enjoying countless motivational lectures and seminars. No doubt, videos, and articles on the topics like, “how not to worry about what people have to say about you,” surely fill us with positive energy, but only for a short span of time. And, after some time, we are going to face the same situation. Hence, watching these motivational lectures are a waste of time. Do you waste your time listening to these motivational lectures?
The hidden truth behind these motivational lectures
First of all, it is very important to understand the hidden truth behind these motivational lectures. Actually, these lectures make you feel like a hydrogen-filled balloon. These loud and noisy lectures that are full of quotes, they do make us feel special for some time. But once the air is out, we feel like a deflated balloon.
Motivational lectures are also similar. After listening to them, you feel like a completely different person with a lot of positive energy. You see yourself as a transformed personality, who is ready to do miracles. You feel like you are matchless and unbeatable. But, after some days, when the hallucination is over, you return back to your old state; a sad and depressed soul.
Now tell me, is there any point of wasting time on these lectures, when you know, after some days you are going to be the same old personality? If others’ opinion is again going to disturb you, then what is the point of watching the video with a title, “how not to give a fuck?”
How to Change Your Life Without these Motivational Lectures
Do you know that you seriously don’t need these lectures to change your life? I am not saying that these motivational lectures are useless. But I believe, these lectures do not make any change until you are ready for the change. To prepare yourself for the change, you have to understand your weaknesses and strengths. And, for that, you really don’t need an outsider. Do you?
ALSO READ – Success Mantra – Change Lies Within Yourself
But the problem is that you are not ready to fix these weaknesses of yours despite knowing them. No wonder, every time you listen to the motivational lectures, you also vow to change yourself. But, after a few days, like a deflated balloon, you become the same personality.
People around you, do not let you be influenced by these motivational lectures
Others’ opinion affects many of us. After listening to the motivational lecture on this subject, we feel like we have learned how to deal with it. But that does not really happen. The truth is, people whose opinions affect us, they know about our weaknesses. They repeatedly hit us at our weak points and make us feel like a demotivated soul. Trust me, no motivational lecture can teach you how to deal those fake well-wishers until you are ready.
That’s why, instead of listening to these motivational lectures, you should work on your strengths and weaknesses. Otherwise, people around you will continue to trouble you.