It is better to be alone than in a complicated relationship

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Sukhdeep Singh

Sukhdeep Singh

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Passionate about playing with words. Sukhdeep is a Post Graduate in Finance. Besides penning down ideas, he is an expert online marketing consultant and a speaker.

Your happiness should come first. So, if you’re still hung in a story that does not fulfill you, it’s time to ask yourself one question: is it not time to ask for more from life? Why is it better to be alone!

Is it better to be alone or should I keep trying with a wrong relationship? Is it some sort of tricky questions? No, it’s not. And, the answer should be as simple as 26 alphabets of English. Life is too short to stay in a relationship where you are unhappy. So, no matter how many excuses you find, but at the end of the day, you have to train yourself in a way where you can realize when is the right time to put a relationship to an end; a relationship that is not living up to your expectations. Trust yourself and do not lose hope: sooner or later you will have your own happy ending. And besides, who says that you cannot have fun even if you are rich alone?

1Do not make impulsive decisions

You look around and you think you are surrounded by only happy couples. Your friends already have a relationship for years, and many of them have already sent you their wedding invitations.

Seeing those beautiful wedding cards and venues, you feel like you do not deserve to be all alone; single throughout your life. You use them as an example and you keep trying to fix things between you two.

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But, there comes a time when you stop seeing future in a relationship with a man you’re not at all interested. At this stage, you want to take a step back and put things in balance.

Dear friends, do not waste your time with a wrong person: you deserve better than a mediocre relationship, merely the result of a compromise.

Eventually, no matter what others do or say,  you can only know what you want and what is best for you. So, do not allow them to influence your decisions.

We know you’re tired of hearing this, but try to be patient: your love story will be written soon.

2A toxic relationship can affect your whole life

You are afraid to make a change, you think that if you leave, you will not find someone else. And, thus you are hauling a relationship that is consuming you and building a mountain of frustration with each day passed.

“We are involved in relationships that make us unhappy with the illusion that we can offer each other what we should be offering. There are times when we have the illusion of safety, but it comes with abuse”, say experts.

In such a relationship, you won’t be able to concentrate on your career, or on your plans for the future, and you simply feel that you are stuck in a toxic relationship; you are deeply unhappy. But, you must be aware that the situation will not resolve itself, and the solution will not come from outside.

If the current relationship brings only suffering, it is reason enough to put an end to them: you are the only one who has the power to make that change. Do not think about what comes next: the most important thing you can do now is found balance.

3Above all, trust yourself!

You need to understand that the fact is – you or your partner, don’t need someone to tell you or define you. If you need confirmation from others, it means that you have to work on the trust itself.

“Women need confirmation of a man in the same way that men need a woman’s confirmation.” No doubt there are countless beautiful relationships based on love, communication and mutual support, and relationships that you are doing more harm than good.

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You will not ever feel safe with a man who criticizes you and undermine your achievements, ideas or initiatives. You will always seek validation, and all your actions will depend on it. You get to feel guilty for all the things with which he disagrees and disregard you.

In such a relationship, you always try to thank him and you will not be happy. Learn to put yourself in the forefront and believe in yourself, in what you can do. Indeed, you deserve to be with someone who loves you, respects you and supports you.

4Single & fabulous

Yes, relationships are great, especially when you’re with the one you’ve always dreamed! But, sometimes it takes a little longer to find it. If you are still confused about being single, just read a few more lines.

Being single means, you have all the time in the world for you! You can do what you want, go where you want to you do all sorts of plans to consider the program without worrying about someone’s desires. You’ll know exactly what you want and you will learn that you are not going to make any compromises when it comes to your wishes.

Yes, it’s perfectly okay to be picky and a person with high standards, even if there are some who claim otherwise. There are endless benefits of being single; better to be alone then being in a mess.

A night on the town or a slumber party with best friends? Yes, please! Do not leave a chance of having a terrific fun with them. I don’t think so that I need to tell you, why.

Do I? No worries and complications! Some people do always complicate our existence. So, when you are single, you are free of such crap worries and you can still enjoy a life free from trouble.

You have a giant bed just for you. And you can sleep in those pajamas with owls, very fluffy because it does not have to impress anyone. Specifically, sexy underwear in the closet can wait!