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Sometimes we fall in love with the uninspired person. Sometimes the nicest man in the universe tries to monopolize our soul. Sometimes things don’t work and the nights become longer than ever.
Life is strange. Nowadays, we barely need an excuse to break a relationship. It is not always money behind the premature death of a relationship. Things go wrong between people and instead of finding out what went wrong, most of the time, they prefer giving up. However, breaking up is not always an easy option, especially when it is about breaking with someone, we are still in love. Before breaking up with some, you had to deal with two challenges. The first challenge is how to tell your partner about this, and the second is how to break up with someone without hurting?
Choose The Time And Place
Before breaking up with someone, start by distancing. Possibly avoid holidays and special occasions such as birthdays, anniversaries, or weddings, where you may have an encounter with your partner. Statistics show that lovers split up during the holidays because at that time there is a break on their meetups.
Before that, make your mind that you want to permanently finish the relationship. Never break up with someone with doubts of reconciling with him/her.
Once you are sure, choose a neutral place. The best would be a place where you both can talk easily. However, in case you expect an aggressive reaction, it is better to choose a place surrounded by people.
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Wear Your Courage
When you want to break up, do it face to face. Instead of doing it through an intermediary or over the phone is not a good idea. Use these methods of breaking up only if the relationship is relatively new or you already had a few very unpleasant meetings.
Prepare yourself for everything thing. When it is about breaking up, do not forget that everything you say is going to hit your partner hard.
Even if you have joint plans of having children, jobs, moving to another city or buying a new home; when life asks you to go in different directions, accept it. This is how a long-term relationship should end.
Avoid Being Sensitive
Be sincere, but do not miss to put yourself in the other’s place. Nobody likes to be abandoned, but at least we know how to appreciate all the truth. A positive attitude is a big help here. A positive attitude will make you feel that you have more to gain than crying over break up.
It is good to think about the future of your partner, but it is your future that should be on the priority.
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Avoid staying in a relationship just because you are afraid to be alone. Walk in diplomacy, but avoid feeling bad about someone just because you feel that you hurt him.
Do Not Finish With Bad Terms
A breakup can be painful, but it is more painful to feel alone in two. Better wait until you are sure of what you want before announcing a breakup. But, at the same time, it is not nice to hold things for an indefinite period of time.
Ask yourself constantly if you really love the person you want to have broken up with. But, once you are sure, keep your emotions under control. Give your partner the required time. Do not finish things on bad terms.
Never Do It All of Sudden
The accepting breakup is not an easy thing for everyone. Some people do not know how to react to a breakup, feel ignored, useless or simply do not understand what is happening? Some scream or cry others block their feelings. Please note that rejection hurts.
If the situation takes a negative turn, simply ignore things. It is preferable to stay friends for a certain amount of time. During that period, try to work on distancing yourself. No matter, how strong you are, you still need to work on your emotions and patience.