When it comes to sex, all men think that they have the cheat code and they do know how to satisfy a woman. In reality, only a few know how to make a woman happy in the bed.
There are no online courses available on how to make a woman happy in the bed. Countries like India, people don’t discuss sex and someone who does is a pervert. Perhaps this is the reason why many of us find it difficult to deal with our sexual problems and behave like idiots in bed. Today, I will tell you what do Indian women want in bed.
1Women want sex for longer duration
Admit it, guys, most of us are selfish and try to dominate in the bed. For us, sex is all about our pleasure and we are least bothered by our female partner. But, we are wrong here. We need to understand that women orgasm take time.
In case of men, after 4-8 minutes of penetration, they reach their climax (in most cases). But, in the case of women, they do not yield an orgasm in such a short time. Now, you don’t need me to tell you that if being a man you are only thinking about your orgasm that is at a distance of 4-8 minutes, then you are actually preparing your woman for a major disappointment. Ain’t you?
In these kinds of sexual relationships, your female partner is going to be more concerned about your ejaculation and not their enjoyment. Women who enjoy sex, however, like to have it for a longer duration.
Instead, dominating or playing selfish, just focuses on the needs of your partner. For a man, it is good to be confident, but not dominant especially in the bed.
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2Women want foreplay before reaching bottom
Ancient cultures describe a man in bed as a fire that ignites and burns with a quick glance of flame. But, a woman is a water, which takes the time to warm up and remains hot for a longer duration.
Most women, however, requires a longer foreplay. There are women who do not need to engage in foreplay, and if you have this type of a female partner, then you do not have to worry about the duration of foreplay.
Ideally, a man should not reach woman’s bottom until the woman’s bottom is wet, which indicates that she is excited. Some women may experience vaginal dryness, but it is a separate issue, and for this, you can use natural oils (such as coconut oil) as a lubricant.
When a man penetrates and vagina is too dry, it not only cause trouble to man but also can cause pain and irritation in the vagina.
3Women love when you kiss during sex
Women complain that they have sex, but for some reason, their male partners do not want to kiss them at all. Kissing is one of the most wonderful things as it helps in creating a real deep connection with a partner.
The kissing is a medium of exchanging the necessary hormones. Kisses can take away the pain, burn calories, raise self-esteem, tighten facial muscles and increase happiness. People who regularly kiss are a lot healthier and happier.
4Women want sex at right time
Women often complain that they already the moves of their partners in advance. They know when their male partner is going to touch, kiss, and when it will finish. This is a killer, by the way.
Dear men, be resourceful and creative in bed. It is important to note that the worst time to have sex is in the evening when everyone is tired and not at all creative. The best time to have sex is in the morning.
Do keep in mind that a tired body and full stomach makes a man ejaculate quickly and the duration remains short. For creativity, it’s good to have some experiments with new positions, places, etc. Spend as little time as 15 minutes on researching and sexually educating yourself.
5Women want men to go slow
During penetration, the most terrible thing according to women is when a man begins to swing back and forth quickly. Most of the area experts are rejecting these quick movements for said reasons.
First, it can be painful, since it often goes against cervical. Male genital should move slowly and calmly, focusing on the 100% feeling that it evokes both. If a man puts on only the head of the genital, it can stimulate the G-spot, pushing a little deeper into the A-section and the rear by entering the U-section.
Fast movements can be good, but it is more important to understand exactly what are you doing, and why. It is necessary to closely monitor the woman’s body and see how it reacts to different movements.
6Women want men to participate
The women say, “when a man throws his back and says, give it a go, then there is nothing particularly sexy.” Rather, there is a feeling that the man wants to reach his climax without worrying much about their female partner’s orgasm.
Occasionally, this is good, but when you have the same sex for seven days of the week, it is surely going to bore your female partner.
7Women like men with a good hygiene
Most of the women think men do not take proper care of themselves. According to women, greasy, furry and obese men are not sexy. No offense, dear men, please consider trimming your underarms and pubic areas. Genital areas should be kept clean.
Premature ejaculation or getting an orgasm before the female partner is the biggest turn-off.
Do remember that your female partner’s body remains extremely unpleasant when you walk away.
Do not keep things limited to your orgasm only. Be creative, and learn to deal with your partner.