All Men Are Not The Same

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Sukhdeep Singh

Sukhdeep Singh

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Passionate about playing with words. Sukhdeep is a Post Graduate in Finance. Besides penning down ideas, he is an expert online marketing consultant and a speaker.

No offense, but never ever give priority to someone for whom you are just an option

“Sorry, but I don’t think that I can accept your proposal. No offense; I hate men.” Being a female, it could be hard for you to recollect yourself after a serious breakup; you cannot trust any man. The situation reminds me of Eminem’s famous number, “Love the way you lie.” There is nothing abnormal in falling for a wrong person, but the problem starts when even after the curtain raiser, one doesn’t want to open her eyes and restrict oneself from betting on another horse. Some ladies complain that even after their one hundred percent efforts, they are facing hardships in quitting an addiction; ‘just not happening’ kind of situation. Unquestionably, changing habits is not an easy thing to do, but I bet you should you follow these solutions, you will surely witness the disappearance of dark spots beneath your eyes.

Always remember that addiction has three words in it, add, addict and then addiction.

Break the ice, add some spice and act like a wise

You need to break the pattern. Go see the world around you that is full of happy souls and love waterfalls. Never forget the million dollar’s quote, “temptations will knock on your door; don’t ask them to stay for a dinner.” The quote, ‘history repeats,’ has nothing to do with heart-affairs. Who knows the person approaching you might have Aladdin’s lamp in his bag; a way to bring the light back. Quite a strange thing, but changing the place will surely help. Scientific principles say that there are negative and positive waves around us, which react according to our attitude towards them. Therefore, do not let the negative waves come near you and always keep the options open.

Be a priority and not an option

Who are you? Have you ever tried to explore yourself? Do you know your real worth? Are you an option for other people or precedence? No offense, but never ever give priority to someone for whom you are just an option. Always remember that addiction has three words in it, add, addict and then addiction means it all start from adding someone and once you make them aware of your addition for them, they will make sure that every moment you suffer from an acute pain of their addiction. Please be advised that I am not claiming that one should see every relation with blurry eyes. I am just urging that when it is about defining you, it has to be only one person who can do the job and that one person has to be ‘You’. True said, “out-of-sight’ is ‘out-of-mind,’ hence stay focused on diamonds because a slight distraction could result in a conversion of diamonds into the pieces of crystal.

What you want – do I have an answer to this?

Try it, camera shoot yourself and ask this one single question before someone spits it on your face. If you see yourself liking a wrong man, you must explore you heart for the answers to the questions like, “Why? What is wrong with me? Am I an ugly Betty?” In simpler terms, you must have answers to the cited questions. Albert Einstein once said that If you can’t explain it to a six-year-old, you don’t understand it yourself.” Therefore, one should behave at the size of her brain and not at the size of her shoe.

The pursuit of happiness – chase your dreams

Remember Will Smith’s dialogue from the movie “The Pursuit of Happyness,” “you gotta a dream, you gotta protect it.” In other words, learn to take decisions independently. Always remember, grey hair not defines a person’s maturity level; capabilities of taking decisions for self does. Therefore, do not let others decide for you, have your own decisions; at least if something goes wrong you know it is only you responsible for that and it is only you who can rectify it.