There comes a time in every relationship when the partners start doubting each other for unexplained reasons.
Be it a misunderstanding, communication issue, or something else; sometimes, you are left with no other option than quitting a relationship. However, leaving someone is not an easy step to proceed with, especially a relationship for which you have countless feelings and emotions. At this point, you need a relationship expert, who can help you with a clear vision and a platform from where you can see the realities. As a relationship expert, I would like to share some signs. Read these and find it out, if you are in an inappropriate relationship.
1You have to walk on a line drawn by your partner
Change is important and we all have to change after we enter into a new relationship (in case of long-term relationships). There is no harm.
However, the problem begins when you are asked to change for satisfying your partner and not for your own betterment. You are asked to walk on the line drawn by your partner.
I seriously see no fun in such a relationship, where you are on a continuous surveillance and every move of yours is under scrutiny.
Look around; in such relationships, you are only sacrificing your peace of mind and that too for a person who is not at all concerned about your peace.
2When your well-wishers start hating your partner
Well, this is a very tricky one. When you are in love with someone, you don’t see bad things. Love is blind, they say.
It is okay if a few people don’t like your partner. However, you seriously need to think, if most of those around you are not in favor of your partner.
Being a relationship expert, I often had to deal with such relationships. I have seen many couples crying for an adjustment after a few months’ marriage (against their parents’ will) with their beloved.
Always remember, for a long-term relationship, you must consider the opinion of those, who were there before your beloved’s entry.
3Criticism and comparisons on every little thing
Criticism is okay, as far as it is about motivating someone. However, in a relationship, there is no place for an unhealthy criticism that degrades someone.
If your partner loves to make unhealthy comparisons, you should consider it as a signal that your relationship is in danger.
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4You wonder constantly what your partner must be doing when you are not around
Every time I listen to Elvis song, “Suspicious Minds,” I feel like it is totally true. You cannot love someone as long as you have doubts.
Relationship demands honesty, loyalty, and trust. Should you see any single element missing, there is no good use of staying in that relationship.
5You are not the only taking decisions
If your partner take all the decisions and you are asked to follow them like an obedient student, then you need to rethink about your relationship.
6No sex or always about sex
Sex plays an important role in a relationship. But, when it is only about sex or no sex at all, then you need to rethink.
No good use of staying with a sex maniac. But at the same time, you must have an acceptable sexual connection if you want a long-term relationship.
7When finding some time for own becomes a challenge
I have seen many people complaining that they hardly get any time for self. Most of the time, they are either making their partner happy or the people around.
If you are in such a relationship, then have a break. And, if you are not doing that, trust me, you are heading towards relationship crises.
8You are the person responsible for the happiness of your partner
The emotional equilibrium of your partner depends upon you. In other words, if you are the person responsible for your partner’s happiness or sadness, then it is not a good sign. Do you see any such symptoms?
9Your partner controls your every move
If you feel that your partner controls everything you, then you should consider it a clear sign that you are in a wrong relationship. Also, do not confuse suggestions with controls.
10Treats you like an option
If you think your partner is not taking you seriously and treat you as an option or as last priority, then you need to reconsider your relationship.