Every dream has a price. But many of us believe that the price is money. Not at all! To buy dreams, you don’t need money, but intentions.
If your intentions are strong, then you can do anything. Many people have already given innumerable sermons on this subject. By making these sermons the basis of lives, many of us have already achieved what they always dreamed of. But some are still just cursing their luck; they are still busy with astrologers’ predictions. If you too are one of them, then you must read this article. Here, I am going to tell you about 10 things that you should start ASAP.
1Start spending time with the right people
Now, do you really want me to tell you, who they are? I am asking you to check people whom you spend your time with. Who are they? What had they done in their life? Do you think, you can learn anything from them. Do you think they are encouraging enough? Do you think, you can follow their path. Do you think, you can they can guide you in the right direction.
If not, then what is the fun of being around them? Drop them, before the before they annihilate you.
2Start looking at the problems that are in front of you
It is not the problems that define your toughness or acumen, but the way you deal with those problems. Your reaction to the problems is all that matters. When you react and how you act, is very important. Be watchful about the way you choose to resolve them.
Trust me, no astrologer can solve your troubles, but only you. No counselor can help you if you are not ready to take a step. The problems in your life will only disappear when you begin to act.
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3Be honest with you
Don’t make excuses because excuses are for losers. At least, be honest to yourself. There is no point of telling lies to others about how you live, how you think, how sad you are inside. No one is really concerned. You can enjoy their attention for some time, but not for long run. Always remember, you can lie to others, but you cannot lie to yourself.
4Never ignore your happiness
Don’t try to be a saint. You are living in a materialistic world, and like others, your needs matter. Mark my words, if you don’t respect yourself, you cannot expect others to respect you. It is okay to be down-to-earth sometimes. But, do keep in mind that self-esteem always begins with your own person.
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5Be real and do not wear masks
Out of the 10 things that you should start asap, this one is also very important. Most of us wear masks. Most of us behave like two different personalities. The rule is – be real. What is the use of presenting yourself as a person that you are not in real life?
Be the person you are and do this in the most authentic way possible. Show your true face to the world because then you don’t have to worry about wearing a mask all the time.
6Live in the present
What is the use of worrying about things that you cannot control? I know, most people talk about future plans. But, plans are going to remain plans, if you don’t start working on them in present. To make your future bright, you have to live your present in the right way.
7Love yourself and show some politeness to yourself
It is not only about being polite with others, but you need to show some politeness to yourself as well. Let me ask, how long you can bear a friend, who would talk to you in the same way that you talk to yourself? The simplest logic is the way you relate to yourself sets the way you behave with others. So, before loving the world, you should start loving yourself.
8Be thankful for everything you have
There is no end to wishes and plans. Many of us believe that we will be happy when we reach a certain point of our life. And, that point could be anything like a better job, a carefree relationship, financial status, etc. We keep running after things and never say thanks for what we have. Desires should be there and you should not suppress them, but you should thank the universe for things you have.
9Never hold yourself from the things that make you happy
Don’t expect others to make you happy. Trust me, if you are still waiting for someone to make you happy, then having happiness is a myth. Nobody is really concerned with your happiness. So, do things that make you happy. Do not wait for others.
10Give your dreams a chance
One of the 10 things that you should start asap is giving your dreams a chance. At the end of your life, you should have no regrets. Whatever you want to do, at least give it a try. Sometimes, all you need is a step to change your life.