Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies A latest form of Dating

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Passionate about playing with words. Sukhdeep is a Post Graduate in Finance. Besides penning down ideas, he is an expert online marketing consultant and a speaker.

Do you know what is latest in the trends; in the dating streets? I am not talking about snapchat or some tinder like mobile app. I am talking about Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies concept.

Perhaps we all must have studied the story of, “the fox and the sour grapes”, from where we learned that human is bound to show ‘who cares’ attitude to the things that he either cannot have or does not have. But, do you think, grapes are always sour? Do you know what is latest in the trends; in the dating streets? I am not talking about snapchat or some tinder like mobile app. I am talking about Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies concept. Now, this one is completely new dating scene in our side of world, but not for western countries. Students are now seeking sugar daddies for their tuition and rent. Don’t believe me – explore Time of India Newspaper (30.05.2016) and you will know what am I talking about.

You give me Money and I will give you Honey

The sole idea behind this dating is – fiscal support with physical support. In other words, you give me money and I will give you honey. We do know how hard it is to survive without money especially when expenses are in thousands and income is in hundred. With a few exceptions, there are people who find it is to have a compromise with their dignity; selling themselves for money. Let us not talk about India, but a country where you need dollars or pounds to live to tell the tale.  You got to options – ask your family to support you or find a job that can save you much. Lucky you will be if you have family support, but otherwise there is no option.

Let me break this whole new dating scene for you. The sugar babies do know that there is a section of mid forties fatsos with some extra skin and extra money. They always fantasized about being popular among petites, but there are certain barriers they are unable to cross – “age, stoutness and sagging skin.” Imagine yourself as the same dude. What will you do; simple you have two ways, one goes to the alley of “the grapes are sour” and other goes to hot sugar baby dating town. We can bet on this, if a man is still alive in you, you will definitely go for the second option. This secret of men is no more a secret to these belladonnas and they know how to get it cashed from sugar daddies.

These hot sugar babies are like small boats honking in the middle of a financially worried river for helping them out until a safe shore.

These dulcet beauties are really lithesome and it is hard to explain their graciousness in words. These sugar-babies are extremely different from the other available paid companions, who live in their own prescribed world of conditions and preferences. No matter one is fatso, old or with grey hair, until one have few extra bucks to spend on them, they can bless one with their companionship. Undeniably the globe revolves around money and so do every worldly thing including these curvy luscious girls. They are an open book to their owners; to the dandified rich satyrs who provide complete access of their bank cards to these girls. In general, these hot sugar babies are like small boats honking in the middle of a financially worried river for helping them out until a safe shore. These girls are young and they do know how to cash their youthfulness and how to fulfill a man with mean demands. Being their sugar daddy one has to make himself clear about a fact that physical intimacy will be arrived only once fiscal involvement is achieved.

A report published by seekingarrangement.com says, they have seen sharp rise in the number of users – from 79,400 to 1.9million users in the world

Can you imagine how popular this is in western countries? A report published by seekingarrangement.com says, they have seen sharp rise in the number of users – from 79,400 to 1.9million users in the world; this whole new dating planet is flourishing. There are cases of such intimacies in India too, but beside metro cities, it is not as open as in other areas as in New York or Los Angeles. Now the question arises, why only through a website, and why not at a pub or at bar? The simplest answer is – they are financial lame, they neither can afford a paid medium for their advertisement nor can they trust on every freebie trying to hit them. Secondly, the experienced honchos of this field claims that grabbing a right chic through these websites that is closely monitored is much safer and easier than going and meeting any random girl with whom one never had any sort of communication. In addition, through such hot sugar baby dating websites, sugar daddies are allowed to have a counter check on the quality and the sourness of these grapes.

If I talk about Indians, I am not sure how most of us going to react. This is going to be a question of our moral ethics and Sabhyata (culture). I am sure there will a huge round of slogan outcries and agitations. I am also not favoring the scenario, as to me it is a deteriorated modern form of live-in relationship where the only thing matters is physical pleasure and fiscal help. I mean, why do you need to adopt such a lifestyle that you cannot afford? It is so hard to understand the simple idiom – “cut your dress according to your cloth.”

The biggest confusion that is disturbing me here is – how this niche of dating is different from prostitution?

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