Do you watch Porn with your Partner?

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Do you watch porn with your Partner?
Do you watch porn with your Partner?
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“According to a ballpark figure – 70% of men and 30% of women watch porn online”

In many civilizations, despite being in century 21st, people are still having debates about watching porn, banning porn, or porn and its side-effects. Many of the area experts believe that pornography is the reason behind many associated crimes like rape and child abuse. Recently, we witnessed a strong opposition from every corner of the society, when our government decided to ban all adult websites. Why do people watch porn; they all have their own reasons – some say they use internet sex to be sexually aroused or to get the orgasm, while other are just addicted to it. The bitter truth behind pornography or internet sex is – a good number of people are interested in this niche, be it paid or free.

The convenience of internet sex allows people to cross boundaries, as they believe that they can fade, quickly on the Internet. People move more easily across borders through the guise of anonymity and security. Especially people who find it difficult to put a halt; they are bound to miss the limits on the internet sex. A few studies say that people with mental health problems, depression, stress, and tension are a major risk group for an internet sex addiction.

No doubt, watching too much porn have no direct impact on our health like smoking or drinking. But, undoubtedly, it seems to bring about a change in the sexual experience. Here, however, exist (yet) no hard evidence. According to sexologists—pornographic images have their influence. Just as commercials increase the desire for that one brand, porn images do the same thing. It has been noted that frequent porn consumption has determined the thinking in men at an early age about what to do with sex and how you should develop a relationship you are in.

There are cases, where experts have dealt with relationship problems between two partners because one of them is addicted to internet sex and expect the same from his/her partner. The more dedication a partner will show to the virtual world, the more distance and alienation will occur between their actual relationship. It’s not easy to compete with an ideal image on the Internet, where anyone gets directly to what they want, no matter how extreme. In real life, you have to take into account a partner’s feelings, thoughts, and desires. Thus, if you are in a relationship, you need to pull yourself back from the virtual world of internet sex.

At the same time, porn improves sex life. A recent study in America shows that partners who have watched a porno film together, not only they have improved their sexual life, but also strengthens their relationship outside the bedroom. Many people say that influence of porn is the reason behind many disturbed (couple) relationships. But, at the same time, there are experts who claim that not everyone who watches porn becomes addicts. So, theory of damaged relationship and porn that is interlinked, can be overruled.

Porn films are sometimes used by some sexologists in treating male impotence, are used as an incentive for couples experiencing problems of a sexual nature or to spice up sex couples. But, the main ingredients that are found only in real life: love and feelings that partners have for each other, gestures of tenderness, affection, real concern to procure pleasure, everything that makes a sexual act, carnal, more than that: a moment of love a moment of sharing and dedication of love.

Experts say with certainty that watching porn with your partner is one of the biggest evidence of safety and reliability.

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