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The first date with a girl and most of the guys look as confused as an old man when given a smartphone; knows nothing about what to do and how to do.
- Do not lose your confidence.
- Wear what you feel comfortable in.
- Be a good listener.
- Do not be an emotional fool.
Many of us feel the same level of nervousness as they feel outside an examination hall when it is about dating a girl for the first time. I have seen guys losing their dignity, patience, and confidence on their first date. One single poke and they jump like a rabbit; they get mad. Undoubtedly, this is going to be the time, when you will see yourself surrounded by dating experts. “Dude! You should be wearing this. You should call her on that place. You should not put her on the wait. It is better to judge her on the first date. And, many more useless dating tips.” But, honestly speaking – one silly mistake can spoil the show. So, what to do? Let me shed light on a few tips for a successful first date.
Choose The Right Color & Right Dress
A survey indicates a violet, blue, or white shirt is a winning choice. Conversely, for women, pink is the least attractive colors. Do dress like a joker. The best I can suggest you is -wear the right color and wear something that you can wear comfortably.
No use of wearing tight jeans, when you have a few extra pounds on you. Don’t make her feel like she is sitting with a Subway foot-long, stuffed with veggies and sauces.
Wait For A ‘Yes’ From The Sun
You may find it strange, but according to a study, women were 14% more likely to say yes to a request if it is sun and not clouds. Indeed, the sun’s rays can significantly improve a woman’s sociability and mood, which, by extension, makes them more receptive to your requests.
Listen To The Talk
Girls love to talk and they love someone with an ear to listen their grieves and never ending stories. So, when you are on your first date, try to be a good listener. Do keep in mind that speak only when you are asked to speak.
When you speak, speak loudly and quickly because this will show that you have confidence in yourself. Try using words like “absolutely” and “certainly” will connect you sooner. Do not use losers’ word like “perhaps” or “maybe.” I recommend choosing a more discreet, less noisy, and less crowded place .
Ask The Right Questions
According to the survey, the following three questions are those that men and women have found the most appropriate.
- Do you ever traveled alone to another country
- Do you like horror movies?
- What is your idea about the people who give up everything to live on a sailboat?
If you do not know what to say during the evening, put one of these three questions. Do not start showing gratitude for the date – “Oh, thank you! For your time. I never expected this day. You are looking good and so on.” Stop representing yourself as a man deprived of girls.
Control your emotions and impatience; emotional intelligence is a must and you must not lose your control over things.
It is good to be bad sometimes, but within the limits. It is good to be bad sometimes, but do not show your feelings too early in a relationship. Do not show your desperation.
Also, when you are on your first date, put your phone on the table. Guys! Stop texting your friends and stop reading your group messages. Do not make a girl feel like you are updating your friends about what is happening. It can ruin your chances to bond. This may be, in fact, a distraction.
Patience is the last secret that I would like to share. Give your relationship a little time before taking it to the bedroom. Work on your emotional intelligence. Do not be an emotional fool.