READ BY
Photo Credit: www.pixabay.com
Kumar Sunil

Kumar Sunil

Dreamer & Enthusiast

Creative. One word says it all for Sunil. A engineer, an enthusiastic and conscientious Information Technology consultant by profession, Sunil shares a special interest with entrepreneurship and lifestyle.

According to experts, sexual life depends upon three major things – time, energy and mood and after “we have kids,” we experience scarcity of all these major contributors.

Life has become very busy nowadays and sometime we find it very hard to judge who is ruling who? The battle of survival and the stubbornness of winning the same asks for a bigger price and sometime the price is relationships; the happy married relationship. Especially after becoming parents a lot of couples find it difficult to balance their family life and sex life. Just because of a drastic shift in priorities, an invisible force compel us to keep other things aside. According to experts, sexual life depends upon three major things – time, energy and mood and after “we have kids,” we experience scarcity of all these major contributors. No doubt, a sexless marriage leads to frustration and depression in many cases and in the worst cases, it becomes a reason of divorce as well. The easiest solution to the situation is – adding some naughty surprises. 

Should you ask a marriage counselor, he will suggest you find reasons that are hampering your sexual intimacy, ways of resolving those and chances of getting connected. You can buy the environment that can be arousing, but what if you feel like there is no spark; you are not in complete mood? Then, how would you fume that spark? Can you imagine, dim lights, scented candles, and enticing fragrance of sultry perfume everywhere; certainly not an ambiance for emotional talks, sermons and lectures.

How about buying something romantic and erotic? Do I mean a pack of chocolates to start with? Yes, quite obviously, you can start with chocolates, but hey! Ever heard about liquor chocolates? After years of marriage, you don’t want to write a letter or attach an Archie card again. You have already done with those old techniques. Now that you are open to each other, you need some erotic gifts here.

After years of marriage, you don’t want to write a letter or attach an Archie card again. You have already done with those old techniques. Now that you are open to each other, you need some erotic gifts here.

Gift No 1 – Chocolate Massage Kit

You have to believe me, this one is really amazing. Science says chocolate is the best stress buster. Try pampering your partner with this one, if she really likes chocolate. Throw her into a delicate chocolate massage. Give her a chance of relaxing, and grant her some time for recharging and rejuvenating. Feel the aroma as it will entice your senses as well. Feel the heavenly pleasure. Try this, you won’t regret.

Gift No 2 – Sexy Lingerie

Admit it, you do fanaticize your lady in some beautiful and sexy lingerie, nighties, etc. Break the ice and walk a little further. I bet, even she is going to love seeing your eyes popped out while she will be at her best. So, how about buying a few sexy lingerie items? It is going to be an amazing gift, especially on an occasion when you guys are reconnecting after years. It would also boost the comfort level between you guys and also, it will tempt you both for extra romantic action. Accepting such a naughty gift might be tougher for your lady. You got to take the initiative to break the cold and you got to make sure that things happen more smoothly.

Gift No 3 – Bikini Set

Remember, Mastizaade? Pattaya? The hottest Sunny Leone and her pink bikni? Oomph.. “Yeh Bikini nahi tikni.” In real life, dare to see someone in the bikini and you will be labeled as ‘pervert.’ Give it a shot. How about exploring online ladies stores for a nice pair of bikini and buying one for your lady? I don’t see anything bad in being that kinky with your lady love. Add some spice.

Gift No 4 – Sexy See-through Gown or Dresses

Be it Sherlyn Chopra, Sophie Choudry, Deepika Padukone, Ayesha Takia, Katrina Kaif, Anushka Sharma, or Jacqueline Fernandez, sexy see through dresses and gowns are trending these days. Why don’t you buy one for your Mrs.? I don’t see anything idiotic in it. After all, it is going to stay between you guys and none of you is going to share it with anyone else. Let her feel like a diva. “Pardey mein rehne do.”

Gift no 5 – Halter neck baby doll or strappy night dress

“Zara Zara Kiss Me.” If you have no idea what am I talking about here, please do yourself a favor, just Google it now. I bet, this is your dream dress for your lady. Online lingerie stores and their jaw-dropping collections for these nightdresses like a black net babydoll, net plain baby doll, halter-neck long sheer nightwear, burgundy strappy night dress, etc. are amazing. You are going to be fascinated, I can guarantee that.

This collection of gifts has no limits. It is up to you how erotic you want that particular moment to be. In addition to these, you can always add an international honeymoon trip to exotic places. Make sure, you leave no stone upturned. This is all about making your spouse ensure that despite physical and mental changes between both of you, you still have affection for each other. These little foreplay will for sure boost your emotional connection. You need to keep your sex life rocking even after children come knocking.

SAY WHAT YOU NEED TO SAY.